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      <title>Different ways of handling shared email addresses on Google Workspace</title>
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      <description>&lt;![CDATA[Delegated Mailbox - no triage person&#xA;This gives multiple people access to a shared email address as a separate mailbox. (Rather than everyone logging in with the same password, access is granted via each person&#39;s primary email address.)&#xA;&#xA;Day-to-day use&#xA;Regularly check the shared email address, responding to emails that are relevant to you&#xA; If you use Gmail in browser or in app, tap/click your face to switch to the delegated mailbox&#xA; If you use Outlook (GWSMO), there will be a separate inbox in your Outlook platform&#xA;&#xA;Set up&#xA;An admin will need to a href=&#34;https://support.google.com/a/answer/11946994?productname=UnuFlow&amp;hl=en&amp;visitid=638710585782574293-509920298&amp;rd=1&amp;src=supportwidget0&amp;hl=en&#34;let users delegate email/a&#xA;Someone with access to the inbox will need to a href=&#34;https://support.google.com/mail/answer/138350?sjid=8160832639675125872-AP#zippy=%2Cadd-a-delegate&#34;add delegates/a&#xA;For anyone who wants to access via Outlook, they will need to be using Google Workspace Sync for Microsoft Outlook (GWSMO) and they will need to  a href=&#34;https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/13459881&#34;set up the delegate account in Outlook/a (Gmail users will not need to do any additional steps for access)&#xA;&#xA;Maintenance&#xA;Someone with access to the inbox will need to a href=&#34;https://support.google.com/mail/answer/138350?sjid=8160832639675125872-AP#zippy=%2Cremove-a-delegate&#34;remove delegates/a as needed&#xA;&#xA;Considerations&#xA;Set up takes an additional step for Outlook (GWSMO) users&#xA;Everyone sees shared read/unread status ie. if one person opens an email, it shows as read for everyone in the inbox&#xA;Can&#39;t assign emails or track who&#39;s handling what&#xA; If two people see an email at the same time, a duplicate reply might happen&#xA; If it&#39;s unclear who an email is for, it might get missed&#xA;All members can see all emails&#xA;The only mail client that works with delegated mailboxes is Outlook (GWSMO) - users of other clients will need to access in browser to access this email address OR set up Forwarding and an Alias for this email address&#xA;&#xA;---&#xA;Delegated Mailbox - triage person assigned&#xA;Give a single person responsibility to check incoming emails to a shared email address regularly and forward them to the right team members. Mailbox rules can automate some of this. Access will be via  as a separate mailbox and assumes they will check incoming emails &#xA;&#xA;Day-to-day use&#xA;For triage person:&#xA;&#xA;Check the shared inbox regularly - forward incoming emails to relevant team member or reply looping in the relevant team member&#xA; If you use Gmail in browser or in app, tap/click your face to switch to the delegated mailbox&#xA; If you use Outlook (GWSMO), there will be a separate inbox in your Outlook platform&#xA;&#xA;For team members:&#xA;&#xA;Receive forwarded emails in their normal inbox&#xA;To send from your personal email address, reply all to keep the shared email address in the loop&#xA;To send from the shared email address, switch to the delegated mailbox, locate the email thread, and reply there&#xA;&#xA;Set up&#xA;Same as for Delegated Mailbox – no triage person above plus:&#xA;&#xA;Filters can be set up to automate some of the forwarding&#xA;Create shared document listing which types of emails go to whom&#xA;&#xA;Maintenance&#xA;Same as for Delegated Mailbox – no triage person above plus:&#xA;&#xA;Triage person to keep routing document up to date&#xA;&#xA;Considerations&#xA;Triage person becomes the bottleneck&#xA;Gets a bit messy if there are complex queries requiring immediate response from multiple people&#xA;Some email history may be lost if the shared email address is not CC / BCCed in&#xA;The only mail client that works with delegated mailboxes is Outlook (GWSMO) - users of other clients will need to access in browser to access this email address OR set up Forwarding and an Alias for this email address&#xA;&#xA;---&#xA;Google Groups with Collaborative Inbox&#xA;This gives multiple people access to a shared email address within their primary mailbox.&#xA;&#xA;Day-to-day use&#xA;To access emails sent to the shared mailbox:&#xA;&#xA;Emails to the shared email address arrive into each person&#39;s primary mailbox, no matter what platform they use. Alternatively you can log into the shared mailbox separately via Google Groups in browser a href=&#34;https://groups.google.com/&#34;here/a.&#xA;Replies are sent from each person&#39;s personal email address. Senders will need to CC or BCC the shared email address so the other users know that it has been handled (alternatively, you can reply to the original email saying that it has been actioned).&#xA;Replies can be sent from the shared email address on the Gmail app, using Gmail in browser, or via a href=&#34;https://groups.google.com/&#34;Google Groups/a in browser - there will be a link in the email that comes which navigates directly to the email. (Replies sent from the shared email address will automatically show up in the shared mailbox).&#xA;&#xA;Set up&#xA;An admin will need to a href=&#34;https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/10375787&#34;create the Google Group, add members and configure it as a collaborative inbox/a&#xA;Each member will need to choose their email notification preferences:&#xA; All emails as they arrive&#xA; Daily digest (responses will have to be sent via Google Groups on web)&#xA; No emails (access via Google Groups on web instead)&#xA;Labels and filters can be set up to segregate emails within a single mailbox&#xA;&#xA;Maintenance&#xA;An admin will need to a href=&#34;https://support.google.com/groups/answer/2465464&#34;add/remove members as needed/a&#xA;The Google Groups view should be checked periodically to ensure all emails have been actioned and to close out conversations&#xA;&#xA;Considerations&#xA;Users managing out of their personal mailbox only will receive all emails&#xA;Some email history may be lost if the shared email address is not CC / BCCed in&#xA;Can&#39;t easily assign emails or track who&#39;s handling what UNLESS there&#39;s a designated assigner who is happy to use the Google Groups view regularly - if two people see an email at the same time, a duplicate reply might happen&#xA;&#xA;Additional notes about configuring Google Groups&#xA;Ensure Conversation history is set to On&#xA;You can set Default sender to Author&#39;s address or Group address HOWEVER if the sender is using a non-Gmail client, they cannot send from the Group address so even if this is selected it will default to the Author&#39;s address&#xA;Set Spam message handling to Post suspicious messages to the group so that spam messages aren&#39;t missed&#xA;Update Subject prefix if you wish so that group members know that an email is coming into the group inbox eg. [hello]&#xA;&#xA;---&#xA;Aliases&#xA;An alias is an additional email address for an existing mailbox. When someone sends an email to the alias, it arrives in the existing mailbox. You can also send emails that appear to come from the alias.&#xA;&#xA;Day-to-day use&#xA;Emails sent to the alias arrive in the existing mailbox&#xA;Multiple people can have the same alias added to their account&#xA;Everyone who has the alias will receive all emails sent to it&#xA;You can send from the alias email in your existing mailbox&#xA;&#xA;Set up&#xA;An admin needs to create the alias&#xA;Admin adds alias to selected users&#39; accounts&#xA;Users will need to configure their mailbox / client to send from alias&#xA;Labels and filters can be set up to segregate emails within a single mailbox&#xA;&#xA;Maintenance&#xA;Admin can add/remove aliases from users as needed&#xA;No ongoing maintenance required&#xA;&#xA;Considerations&#xA;An alias can only be set up on a single existing mailbox - this can be a user&#39;s primary account, a Google Group or a Delegated Mailbox&#xA;No shared email history when reassigning alias&#xA;&#xA;---&#xA;Forwarding&#xA;This sends a copy of emails from one address to one or more other email addresses. When someone sends an email to the forwarded address, it automatically sends copies to specified recipient addresses.&#xA;&#xA;Day-to-day use&#xA;Emails sent to the forwarded address arrive in recipients&#39; primary mailboxes&#xA;Multiple people can receive forwards from the same address&#xA;Everyone gets their own copy of the email&#xA;Can respond using forwarded email address if using Gmail or Outlook (GWSMO)&#xA;&#xA;Set up&#xA;Admin or account owner sets up forwarding rules (leave a copy of email in the forwarding account)&#xA;Labels and filters can be set up to segregate emails &#xA;Can set up filters or rules on the receiving mailboxes&#xA;Can set up Send Mail As feature to send from the forwarded email address if using Gmail&#xA;Can add a separate From address to send from the forwarded email address if using Outlook (GWSMO)&#xA;&#xA;Maintenance&#xA;Update forwarding rules when team changes&#xA;Check forwarding is working periodically&#xA;&#xA;Considerations&#xA;Can only send from the forwarded email address if using Gmail or Outlook (GWSMO)&#xA;No shared view of who&#39;s handling what - must coordinate responses to avoid duplication&#xA;No shared email history except for original incoming email]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 id="delegated-mailbox-no-triage-person" id="delegated-mailbox-no-triage-person">Delegated Mailbox – no triage person</h2>

<p>This gives multiple people access to a shared email address as a separate mailbox. (Rather than everyone logging in with the same password, access is granted via each person&#39;s primary email address.)</p>

<h3 id="day-to-day-use" id="day-to-day-use">Day-to-day use</h3>
<ul><li>Regularly check the shared email address, responding to emails that are relevant to you
<ul><li>If you use Gmail in browser or in app, tap/click your face to switch to the delegated mailbox</li>
<li>If you use Outlook (GWSMO), there will be a separate inbox in your Outlook platform</li></ul></li></ul>

<h3 id="set-up" id="set-up">Set up</h3>
<ul><li>An admin will need to <a href="https://support.google.com/a/answer/11946994?product_name=UnuFlow&amp;hl=en&amp;visit_id=638710585782574293-509920298&amp;rd=1&amp;src=supportwidget0&amp;hl=en">let users delegate email</a></li>
<li>Someone with access to the inbox will need to <a href="https://support.google.com/mail/answer/138350?sjid=8160832639675125872-AP#zippy=%2Cadd-a-delegate">add delegates</a></li>
<li>For anyone who wants to access via Outlook, they will need to be using Google Workspace Sync for Microsoft Outlook (GWSMO) and they will need to  <a href="https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/13459881">set up the delegate account in Outlook</a> (Gmail users will not need to do any additional steps for access)</li></ul>

<h3 id="maintenance" id="maintenance">Maintenance</h3>
<ul><li>Someone with access to the inbox will need to <a href="https://support.google.com/mail/answer/138350?sjid=8160832639675125872-AP#zippy=%2Cremove-a-delegate">remove delegates</a> as needed</li></ul>

<h3 id="considerations" id="considerations">Considerations</h3>
<ul><li>Set up takes an additional step for Outlook (GWSMO) users</li>
<li>Everyone sees shared read/unread status ie. if one person opens an email, it shows as read for everyone in the inbox</li>
<li>Can&#39;t assign emails or track who&#39;s handling what
<ul><li>If two people see an email at the same time, a duplicate reply might happen</li>
<li>If it&#39;s unclear who an email is for, it might get missed</li></ul></li>
<li>All members can see all emails</li>
<li>The only mail client that works with delegated mailboxes is Outlook (GWSMO) – users of other clients will need to access in browser to access this email address OR set up <em>Forwarding</em> and an <em>Alias</em> for this email address</li></ul>

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<h2 id="delegated-mailbox-triage-person-assigned" id="delegated-mailbox-triage-person-assigned">Delegated Mailbox – triage person assigned</h2>

<p>Give a single person responsibility to check incoming emails to a shared email address regularly and forward them to the right team members. Mailbox rules can automate some of this. Access will be via  as a separate mailbox and assumes they will check incoming emails</p>

<h3 id="day-to-day-use-1" id="day-to-day-use-1">Day-to-day use</h3>

<p>For triage person:</p>
<ul><li>Check the shared inbox regularly – forward incoming emails to relevant team member or reply looping in the relevant team member
<ul><li>If you use Gmail in browser or in app, tap/click your face to switch to the delegated mailbox</li>
<li>If you use Outlook (GWSMO), there will be a separate inbox in your Outlook platform</li></ul></li></ul>

<p>For team members:</p>
<ul><li>Receive forwarded emails in their normal inbox</li>
<li>To send from your personal email address, reply all to keep the shared email address in the loop</li>
<li>To send from the shared email address, switch to the delegated mailbox, locate the email thread, and reply there</li></ul>

<h3 id="set-up-1" id="set-up-1">Set up</h3>

<p>Same as for <em>Delegated Mailbox – no triage person</em> above plus:</p>
<ul><li>Filters can be set up to automate some of the forwarding</li>
<li>Create shared document listing which types of emails go to whom</li></ul>

<h3 id="maintenance-1" id="maintenance-1">Maintenance</h3>

<p>Same as for <em>Delegated Mailbox – no triage person</em> above plus:</p>
<ul><li>Triage person to keep routing document up to date</li></ul>

<h3 id="considerations-1" id="considerations-1">Considerations</h3>
<ul><li>Triage person becomes the bottleneck</li>
<li>Gets a bit messy if there are complex queries requiring immediate response from multiple people</li>
<li>Some email history may be lost if the shared email address is not CC / BCCed in</li>
<li>The only mail client that works with delegated mailboxes is Outlook (GWSMO) – users of other clients will need to access in browser to access this email address OR set up <em>Forwarding</em> and an <em>Alias</em> for this email address</li></ul>

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<h2 id="google-groups-with-collaborative-inbox" id="google-groups-with-collaborative-inbox">Google Groups with Collaborative Inbox</h2>

<p>This gives multiple people access to a shared email address within their primary mailbox.</p>

<h3 id="day-to-day-use-2" id="day-to-day-use-2">Day-to-day use</h3>

<p>To access emails sent to the shared mailbox:</p>
<ul><li>Emails to the shared email address arrive into each person&#39;s primary mailbox, no matter what platform they use. Alternatively you can log into the shared mailbox separately via Google Groups in browser <a href="https://groups.google.com/">here</a>.</li>
<li>Replies are sent from each person&#39;s personal email address. Senders will need to CC or BCC the shared email address so the other users know that it has been handled (alternatively, you can reply to the original email saying that it has been actioned).</li>
<li>Replies can be sent from the shared email address on the Gmail app, using Gmail in browser, or via <a href="https://groups.google.com/">Google Groups</a> in browser – there will be a link in the email that comes which navigates directly to the email. (Replies sent from the shared email address will automatically show up in the shared mailbox).</li></ul>

<h3 id="set-up-2" id="set-up-2">Set up</h3>
<ul><li>An admin will need to <a href="https://support.google.com/a/users/answer/10375787">create the Google Group, add members and configure it as a collaborative inbox</a></li>
<li>Each member will need to choose their email notification preferences:
<ul><li>All emails as they arrive</li>
<li>Daily digest (responses will have to be sent via Google Groups on web)</li>
<li>No emails (access via Google Groups on web instead)</li></ul></li>
<li>Labels and filters can be set up to segregate emails within a single mailbox</li></ul>

<h3 id="maintenance-2" id="maintenance-2">Maintenance</h3>
<ul><li>An admin will need to <a href="https://support.google.com/groups/answer/2465464">add/remove members as needed</a></li>
<li>The Google Groups view should be checked periodically to ensure all emails have been actioned and to close out conversations</li></ul>

<h3 id="considerations-2" id="considerations-2">Considerations</h3>
<ul><li>Users managing out of their personal mailbox only will receive all emails</li>
<li>Some email history may be lost if the shared email address is not CC / BCCed in</li>
<li>Can&#39;t easily assign emails or track who&#39;s handling what UNLESS there&#39;s a designated assigner who is happy to use the Google Groups view regularly – if two people see an email at the same time, a duplicate reply might happen</li></ul>

<h3 id="additional-notes-about-configuring-google-groups" id="additional-notes-about-configuring-google-groups">Additional notes about configuring Google Groups</h3>
<ul><li>Ensure Conversation history is set to On</li>
<li>You can set Default sender to <em>Author&#39;s address</em> or <em>Group address</em> HOWEVER if the sender is using a non-Gmail client, they cannot send from the Group address so even if this is selected it will default to the Author&#39;s address</li>
<li>Set Spam message handling to Post suspicious messages to the group so that spam messages aren&#39;t missed</li>
<li>Update Subject prefix if you wish so that group members know that an email is coming into the group inbox eg. [hello]</li></ul>

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<h2 id="aliases" id="aliases">Aliases</h2>

<p>An alias is an additional email address for an existing mailbox. When someone sends an email to the alias, it arrives in the existing mailbox. You can also send emails that appear to come from the alias.</p>

<h3 id="day-to-day-use-3" id="day-to-day-use-3">Day-to-day use</h3>
<ul><li>Emails sent to the alias arrive in the existing mailbox</li>
<li>Multiple people can have the same alias added to their account</li>
<li>Everyone who has the alias will receive all emails sent to it</li>
<li>You can send from the alias email in your existing mailbox</li></ul>

<h3 id="set-up-3" id="set-up-3">Set up</h3>
<ul><li>An admin needs to create the alias</li>
<li>Admin adds alias to selected users&#39; accounts</li>
<li>Users will need to configure their mailbox / client to send from alias</li>
<li>Labels and filters can be set up to segregate emails within a single mailbox</li></ul>

<h3 id="maintenance-3" id="maintenance-3">Maintenance</h3>
<ul><li>Admin can add/remove aliases from users as needed</li>
<li>No ongoing maintenance required</li></ul>

<h3 id="considerations-3" id="considerations-3">Considerations</h3>
<ul><li>An alias can only be set up on a single existing mailbox – this can be a user&#39;s primary account, a Google Group or a Delegated Mailbox</li>
<li>No shared email history when reassigning alias</li></ul>

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<h2 id="forwarding" id="forwarding">Forwarding</h2>

<p>This sends a copy of emails from one address to one or more other email addresses. When someone sends an email to the forwarded address, it automatically sends copies to specified recipient addresses.</p>

<h3 id="day-to-day-use-4" id="day-to-day-use-4">Day-to-day use</h3>
<ul><li>Emails sent to the forwarded address arrive in recipients&#39; primary mailboxes</li>
<li>Multiple people can receive forwards from the same address</li>
<li>Everyone gets their own copy of the email</li>
<li>Can respond using forwarded email address if using Gmail or Outlook (GWSMO)</li></ul>

<h3 id="set-up-4" id="set-up-4">Set up</h3>
<ul><li>Admin or account owner sets up forwarding rules (leave a copy of email in the forwarding account)</li>
<li>Labels and filters can be set up to segregate emails</li>
<li>Can set up filters or rules on the receiving mailboxes</li>
<li>Can set up Send Mail As feature to send from the forwarded email address if using Gmail</li>
<li>Can add a separate From address to send from the forwarded email address if using Outlook (GWSMO)</li></ul>

<h3 id="maintenance-4" id="maintenance-4">Maintenance</h3>
<ul><li>Update forwarding rules when team changes</li>
<li>Check forwarding is working periodically</li></ul>

<h3 id="considerations-4" id="considerations-4">Considerations</h3>
<ul><li>Can only send from the forwarded email address if using Gmail or Outlook (GWSMO)</li>
<li>No shared view of who&#39;s handling what – must coordinate responses to avoid duplication</li>
<li>No shared email history except for original incoming email</li></ul>
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      <title>🐇 The turning of the year 🐉</title>
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      <description>&lt;![CDATA[Lunar new year was this weekend past, but it&#39;s still more new moon than it is waxing crescent, so I&#39;m going to count it as still &#34;the new year&#34;.&#xA;&#xA;The calendar year feels more like a fresh start because most of the people in my world experience it that way, and far be it from me to fight the pull of the collective experience.&#xA;&#xA;But I like lunar new year. We don&#39;t celebrate it in my family traditions, but I&#39;ve leaned into it more and more the last few turns about the sun. It gives me a bit of time to get a feel for the calendar year... and it feels a little less arbitrary.&#xA;&#xA;So here I am in this new moon between lunar years, one foot in the past and one foot in the future, with a tiny sliver of my being crossing the line that is &#34;now&#34;.&#xA;&#xA;It&#39;s been quite the year. I&#39;m still feeling things that have happened. And I wait in anticipation of things that haven&#39;t yet become real.&#xA;&#xA;what stayed the same&#xA;&#xA;support&#xA;I maintain regular sessions with my psychologist. And it&#39;s totally worth it. The work I&#39;ve done with her over the past few years has changed my life in ways I never dreamed were possible.&#xA;&#xA;m &amp; m on mondays&#xA;Most Mondays, I meet with two of my close friends. We spend an hour together, checking in, talking, holding space. Sometimes it&#39;s light and full of laughs. Other times it&#39;s heavy and just the three of us trudging on alongside each other. It&#39;s such a kick drum in the rhythm of my life that the absence is felt when it&#39;s not on.&#xA;&#xA;the two person book club&#xA;Once every month or so, we meet, check in about life,  talk about the book we&#39;ve just read, and pick the next one. The book club has seen us through two break ups (both mine), an engagement (hers), interstate/international relocations, and major career shifts. We&#39;re currently on our 36th book together. There are books I wouldn&#39;t have enjoyed as much, or even read, if I didn&#39;t have this.&#xA;&#xA;the internet friends&#xA;We started out as an accountability group for an online challenge and we kept it going as a monthly call. Loosely, we check in about goals and habits, but it&#39;s also a life check in. These people don&#39;t touch my life or day-to-day world, they&#39;ve not met any of my other friends or colleagues, so the perspectives I get from them are pretty objective. We&#39;ve held up the mirror to each other for years and I know that having their counsel has made a significant impact on my life.&#xA;&#xA;singing&#xA;I took my first singing lesson with him in October of 2021. It gave me the confidence to audition for a show the next year. And since then, he&#39;s helped me grow in so many ways. Yes, my technique has gotten better and I&#39;m using my instrument better, but also, he&#39;s helped me to love singing, and love the process of learning, which is invaluable.&#xA;&#xA;home&#xA;I am still living where I lived last lunar new year. It is too hot to deal with in summer. It is too small to arrange my belongings without looking crowded. It needs some work. But I love it. It&#39;s more home than anywhere else in the world.&#xA;&#xA;what ended&#xA;&#xA;things with him&#xA;There have been a few hims. But this one was the most recent and, according to one bias, the most significant. &#xA;&#xA;the best doggo&#39;s time here&#xA;She was his but we became quite close. I would have taken her if he had ever decided to give her up. She was, without a doubt, the sweetest dog I&#39;ve gotten to know.&#xA;&#xA;bits of work&#xA;Some of the work I was doing reached its natural end. I wish them all well and I&#39;m honestly relieved that I&#39;m not working on more than I&#39;m currently working on!&#xA;&#xA;noteworthy happenings&#xA;Performed in Oklahoma! and The Music Man&#xA;Marketed Urinetown, The Addams Family, and Footloose&#xA;Production liaised for Footloose&#xA;Hosted a dinner party at the house (for my birthday)&#xA;Visited my family in the Philippines&#xA;Got a car and started driving myself places&#xA;&#xA;what started&#xA;Joined the board of Phoenix Ensemble&#xA;Delivered a workshop that I was super proud of&#xA;Started reading more&#xA;Started writing more&#xA;Started going to the theatre again&#xA;Took an in person role&#xA;&#xA;what might happen next&#xA;At this stage, I&#39;m just letting it unfold.&#xA;&#xA;But there are a few things on the cards:&#xA;In March, I&#39;ll be heading to New Zealand for a proper touristy holiday&#xA;In June, I&#39;m doing a weekend trip to Canberra to see a production of Rent&#xA;There are at least four shows I&#39;d like to audition for&#xA;Developing Phoenix Arts Academy &amp; Phoenix After Dark&#xA;More writing&#xA;More reading&#xA;More asking for help&#xA;First MOH gig&#xA;I&#39;ll probably learn how to park between two cars&#xA;&#xA;Let&#39;s see!]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lunar new year was this weekend past, but it&#39;s still more new moon than it is waxing crescent, so I&#39;m going to count it as still “the new year”.</p>

<p>The calendar year feels more like a fresh start because most of the people in my world experience it that way, and far be it from me to fight the pull of the collective experience.</p>

<p>But I like lunar new year. We don&#39;t celebrate it in my family traditions, but I&#39;ve leaned into it more and more the last few turns about the sun. It gives me a bit of time to get a feel for the calendar year... and it feels a little less arbitrary.</p>

<p>So here I am in this new moon between lunar years, one foot in the past and one foot in the future, with a tiny sliver of my being crossing the line that is “now”.</p>

<p>It&#39;s been quite the year. I&#39;m still feeling things that have happened. And I wait in anticipation of things that haven&#39;t yet become real.</p>

<h2 id="what-stayed-the-same" id="what-stayed-the-same">what stayed the same</h2>

<h3 id="support" id="support">support</h3>

<p>I maintain regular sessions with my psychologist. And it&#39;s totally worth it. The work I&#39;ve done with her over the past few years has changed my life in ways I never dreamed were possible.</p>

<h3 id="m-m-on-mondays" id="m-m-on-mondays">m &amp; m on mondays</h3>

<p>Most Mondays, I meet with two of my close friends. We spend an hour together, checking in, talking, holding space. Sometimes it&#39;s light and full of laughs. Other times it&#39;s heavy and just the three of us trudging on alongside each other. It&#39;s such a kick drum in the rhythm of my life that the absence is felt when it&#39;s not on.</p>

<h3 id="the-two-person-book-club" id="the-two-person-book-club">the two person book club</h3>

<p>Once every month or so, we meet, check in about life,  talk about the book we&#39;ve just read, and pick the next one. The book club has seen us through two break ups (both mine), an engagement (hers), interstate/international relocations, and major career shifts. We&#39;re currently on our 36th book together. There are books I wouldn&#39;t have enjoyed as much, or even read, if I didn&#39;t have this.</p>

<h3 id="the-internet-friends" id="the-internet-friends">the internet friends</h3>

<p>We started out as an accountability group for an online challenge and we kept it going as a monthly call. Loosely, we check in about goals and habits, but it&#39;s also a life check in. These people don&#39;t touch my life or day-to-day world, they&#39;ve not met any of my other friends or colleagues, so the perspectives I get from them are pretty objective. We&#39;ve held up the mirror to each other for years and I know that having their counsel has made a significant impact on my life.</p>

<h3 id="singing" id="singing">singing</h3>

<p>I took my first singing lesson with him in October of 2021. It gave me the confidence to audition for a show the next year. And since then, he&#39;s helped me grow in so many ways. Yes, my technique has gotten better and I&#39;m using my instrument better, but also, he&#39;s helped me to love singing, and love the process of learning, which is invaluable.</p>

<h3 id="home" id="home">home</h3>

<p>I am still living where I lived last lunar new year. It is too hot to deal with in summer. It is too small to arrange my belongings without looking crowded. It needs some work. But I love it. It&#39;s more home than anywhere else in the world.</p>

<h2 id="what-ended" id="what-ended">what ended</h2>

<h3 id="things-with-him" id="things-with-him">things with him</h3>

<p>There have been a few hims. But this one was the most recent and, according to one bias, the most significant.</p>

<h3 id="the-best-doggo-s-time-here" id="the-best-doggo-s-time-here">the best doggo&#39;s time here</h3>

<p>She was his but we became quite close. I would have taken her if he had ever decided to give her up. She was, without a doubt, the sweetest dog I&#39;ve gotten to know.</p>

<h3 id="bits-of-work" id="bits-of-work">bits of work</h3>

<p>Some of the work I was doing reached its natural end. I wish them all well and I&#39;m honestly relieved that I&#39;m not working on more than I&#39;m currently working on!</p>

<h2 id="noteworthy-happenings" id="noteworthy-happenings">noteworthy happenings</h2>

<p>Performed in Oklahoma! and The Music Man
Marketed Urinetown, The Addams Family, and Footloose
Production liaised for Footloose
Hosted a dinner party at the house (for my birthday)
Visited my family in the Philippines
Got a car and started driving myself places</p>

<h2 id="what-started" id="what-started">what started</h2>

<p>Joined the board of Phoenix Ensemble
Delivered a workshop that I was super proud of
Started reading more
Started writing more
Started going to the theatre again
Took an in person role</p>

<h2 id="what-might-happen-next" id="what-might-happen-next">what might happen next</h2>

<p>At this stage, I&#39;m just letting it unfold.</p>

<p>But there are a few things on the cards:
* In March, I&#39;ll be heading to New Zealand for a proper touristy holiday
* In June, I&#39;m doing a weekend trip to Canberra to see a production of Rent
* There are at least four shows I&#39;d like to audition for
* Developing Phoenix Arts Academy &amp; Phoenix After Dark
* More writing
* More reading
* More asking for help
* First MOH gig
* I&#39;ll probably learn how to park between two cars</p>

<p>Let&#39;s see!</p>
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